Comparing an M3, a 911 and an AMG often begins with a table of numbers. That is useful, but it leaves out the part that makes enthusiasts keep thinking about a car after the drive ends. The real question is whether the ordinary moments feel interesting.
Start with the controls. Is it easy to place the car on a narrow street? Does the steering communicate enough without constantly demanding attention? Is the seating position natural, and can the important controls be found without looking away from the road?
Then consider the life around the drive. A car that makes a weekend memorable still has to fit the trips you actually take. Passenger space, luggage, comfort and visibility are not separate from the enthusiast experience; they determine how often you get to enjoy it.
The most revealing comparison is a familiar route driven calmly in each car, with time to notice the details. A favourite need not win every category. It needs to make the compromises that you can live with—and offer something you would miss if it were gone.